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Still Life With Rice: A Young American Woman Discovers the Life and Legacy of Her Korean Grandmother
by Helie Lee (Author) Format: Paperback
4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (83)

“A captivating memoir of a courageous survivor” (Publishers Weekly) and “a window onto the panorama of modern Korean history” (St. Petersburg Times) this is a radiant and engaging story about a young American woman’s discovery about the life of her Korean grandmother.

Helie Lee’s grandmother, Hongyong Baek, came of age in a unified but socially repressive Korea, where she was taught the roles that had been prescribed for her: obedient daughter, demure wife, efficient household manager. Ripped from her home first during the Japanese occupation and again during the bloody civil war that divided her country, Hongyong fought to save her family by drawing from her own talents and values. Over the years she proved her spirit indomitable, providing for her husband children by running a successful restaurant, building a profitable opium business, and eventually becoming adept at the healing art of ch’iryo. When she was forced to leave her country, she moved her family to California, where she reestablished her ch’iryo practice.

Writing in her grandmother’s voice, Helie Lee recreates an individual experience in a unique culture that is both seductively exotic and strangely familiar. With wit and verve, she claims her own Korean identity and illuminates the intricate experiences of Asian-American women in this century.
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Peter Arzberger
5.0 out of 5 stars A gripping memoir, giving a overview of key events in 20th century Korean history.
Reviewed in the United States on 13 October 2021
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A gripping memoir, speaking to the resilience of a person’s soul and the healing quality of family bonds of love and devotion.

Written by the granddaughter Helie, this story follows the life of a headstrong Korean woman during time of turmoil. The Korean society was turned upside down during its rule by Japan; Koreans' hope for independence and unity was followed by despair when “liberation” divided the country and devastated those who stayed north of the 38th parallel; the Korean war brought chaos and death to millions; and the ensuing vast migration to the south led to separation and loss of family.

The grandmother, Hong Yong, was born in the year of the rat, 1912. We experience life through her eyes, struggling against the powerful forces that shaped and destroyed society. We learn about her personal joys and disappointments, marriage, children, fleeing Korea for China to “live as Koreans”, creating wealth legally and illegally, having children and raising the family, of her husband’s infidelity, and her conversion to Christianity. Repeatedly, we see the family struggle, find joy, lose wealth through relocation, war, politics, and start over again.

But throughout these events we see a determination to keep a family together. At times, Hong Yong despairs; sometimes her husband steps into the role of holding the family together, sometimes it is her oldest daughter.

When in China, Hong Yong learns the healing skills of Ch’iryo from one of her employees. This she practices, and while many are skeptical, as she was at first, this skill helps her start again, after the devastation of the Korean war, losing her husband to diphtheria, and separated from her firstborn, a son, during the rush in 1950 to flee North Korea.

The book also captures the culture of Korea, from obedience to parents to her key life events, such as weddings.

The granddaughter wrote the book in first person, in the voice of her grandmother. This is very effective. In fact, this would have made an engaging novel, and I wondered, often, how all of this could have happened to one person. The book also captures key moments of modern Korean history.

FB. A gripping memoir, that works as literature, as an overview of key events in Korean history experienced by people, as a primer on the culture of Korea and some key life events (e.g., weddings), and as the story of resilience and the strength of family love.
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A. Bridges
5.0 out of 5 stars Page Turner and Eye Opener!
Reviewed in the United States on 23 September 2005
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I really enjoyed this book. I live in Korea as the wife of a US military officer. I have lived here for over a year and have daily contact with many Koreans. This book gave me valuable insight into the Koreans around me. Obviously not everyone is the same. However, this book taught me a lot about Korean culture and traditions, some aspects of which have sometimes confused and frustrated me. The morning after I stayed up half the night finishing this book (I couldn't put it down), as I drove around, I looked at these natives of my host country through entirely new eyes.

I have been telling everyone I come into contact with about this book. So far, everyone who has read it at my recommendation has been in full agreement with me.

The story is incredible. After I finished it, I spoke with a Korean woman I know well who was about 8 during the Korean War. Her stories were strikingly similar to what I read in the book.

This book is a must read, whether you have a relationship with Korea or not.
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daniel
5.0 out of 5 stars The Best Book
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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I really enjoyed reading this book. This book really opened my eyes about the difficulties that Helie Lee and other people like her went through. I would recommend this book to anyone who would want to learn about Korean history. This was a very emotional book to read and would recommend this to everyone. This book’s perspective is told from the eyes of grandma from her childhood till her adulthood. The novel additionally resolves significant issues about the old persecution of ladies, the effect of the Japanese take-over in Korea, and the conflict that separated families alongside the North and South. Through such a private experience with such a strong and adorable lady, we gain the battles and history that oozes from Korea.
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Barbara loves a great read
4.0 out of 5 stars Reading this after Korea Trip made this book very relevant
Reviewed in the United States on 4 September 2012
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I just finished reading "Still Life with Rice." It was especially interesting because we had just been to Korea. I wanted an understanding of the culture and the effects of so many years of war. While in Korea we stood looking across the water into N.Korea and I felt the agony of the many thousands of S. Korean people who had loved ones kidnapped to N Korea in 1951. They did not know who in their family survived the war and were trapped in N. Korea.

This is a memoir written by a granddaughter about her grandmother's life growing up in both N & S Korea and China and the suffering of the war years. It is very frank in the descriptions and it is hard to imagine the hardships they survived. It also gives insight into older generations watching Korean culture change with immigration to the USA. If you ever wondered about the Korean war this first-person memoir is a good read. It is also a book about the challenge of trying to record first-person accounts before older relatives are no longer able to tell us what it was like for them. There are some aspects of the grandmother's life that were self-inflicted tragedy - her desire to sell opium to gain wealth was tragic. But there were great changes in her goals, focus and desires over the years. I think it reveals that in old age the grandmother realized ways that she had failed as a mother. I am thankful the granddaughter preserved this account and I recommend it to anyone wondering about life in Korea in the Korean war years.

Barbara Anne Waite -Author of Memoir "Elsie-Adventures of an Arizona Schoolteacher 1913-1916"
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Kristen FP
5.0 out of 5 stars Nothing Still About This Life
Reviewed in the United States on 21 July 2010
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Still Life, With Rice is a beautiful depiction of the Korean woman. Helie Lee introduces us to a Korean-American female narrator who is unaware of the power behind her culture. She views her mother and grandmother as coming from the "old-school," thus defying her Korean identity. On a trip to Korea, our narrator begins a journey to awakening, which we, as readers feel because Lee then transforms the narration to that of our narrator's grandmother. We live through the grandmother's life from childhood, through marriage, children, the Korean War, love, loss, wealth, despair, and everything in between.

The novel also addresses major issues about the old oppression of women, the affect of the Japanese take-over in Korea, and the war that divided families along with the North and South. Through such an intimate encounter with such a powerful and lovable woman, we learn the struggles and history that exudes from Korea.

Overall, an absolutely wonderful read for someone who is looking to understand Korean history on an accessible level, or for a reader looking for a great quest of emotional discovery.
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zhiying zhu
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing Book that talks about Korean culture and history
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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This book gives a vivid description of her grandmother’s life. Her grandma moved to China and USA to stay away from the war. It talks about the cultural clash between traditional Korean culture and American culture. It also talked about how different life is at each country. Through the author’s amazing wording and story telling, the readers can understand the culture behind it. I really recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn about history or simply want to choose a for fun book.
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Pa Ku Yang
3.0 out of 5 stars Could be better
Reviewed in the United States on 21 January 2014
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The setting for this book is all over the place. It cannot be easily followed when, where, what, and how. I feel like reading 2 different stories with two different settings. Transition could be better to tie in both stories of the past and present. Although, parts of this book are worth reading balancing both worlds that the author lives in.
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Brandon Pang
5.0 out of 5 stars Recommend! Hit me in the feels
Reviewed in the United States on 21 January 2020
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Would recommend to any korean American. Really provides a lot of insight to our cultural values and why we might have been raised the way that we are. Helped clarify things between my relationships with my parents that might not be as easily communicated by them. Also makes me appreciate their gestures and their love languages even though they might realize it. Inspires me to want to revamp my own Korean so that I can ask my grandparents about their own experiences before it’s too late. Would love to talk about it with other readers and definitely recommend for book clubs or any courses focusing on Asian cultural studies
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Nicole kimele
4.0 out of 5 stars Great historical insight
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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I really liked the historical aspect of the book. I learned a lot about the history of Korea in an interesting perspective. I also liked that the perspective of the book was from the authors grandmother. What I disliked a little was that I feel like there wasn’t a huge climax, there was a lot of little tragedies throughout the various chapters. Although another thing I liked was that the chapters were pretty short and every chapter was a bit different. I loved learning about all the different characters and various members of the family. The book dug deep into Korean traditions, and gave a great insight into the Korean way of life. Overall I enjoyed the book, and recommend reading it.
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Eli H
4.0 out of 5 stars A piece of literature for your brain!
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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An absolutely breathtaking book that is like no other I’ve read before. The series of events that occur in this book from a first person point of view really makes me wonder about the differences in lifestyle in Korea between then and now. The narrator (Houngyong) perspective really makes me appreciate for what is around me and the form of stable government I live in: it’s hard to imagine what living like in such a fragile environment must be like but Huongyong makes it very much possible for what it’s like to live through those experiences. The book does change narrators sometimes and jumps to different episodes of her life.
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Lindsey
4.0 out of 5 stars Great book
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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I think that Still Life With Rice is a very well written novel, but it can be confusing to read at times because the characters don’t have distinct names. With that said, I get lost in the characters while reading sometimes. I love the storyline of Still Life With Rice and the details the author gives. I also love the family connection between Helie and her family. You can tell that the family is close and they care for each other. You get to feel a lot of different emotions from this book like happiness, sadness, sorrow, sympathy, and more.
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Penny
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Reviewed in the United States on 30 December 2024
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Great read
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Rindy13
5.0 out of 5 stars Empowering and emotional non fiction
Reviewed in the United States on 14 September 2022
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Read this book about 15 years ago and remembered loving it. Decided to buy it again and it did not disappoint. It's action packed and gives a detailed account of the extreme hardships and victories endured by the author's grandmother in Korea. A page turner for sure.
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Cairographics
5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible!
Reviewed in the United States on 19 January 2007
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This is truly an incredible journey: A true story that reads like a gripping novel: from a mother trying to cast out the worms that gnaw at her daughter's stomach, to trying to cross the shell of a bridge from North Korea to South Korea during the war, with children in tow. It will make you appreciate everything you have: your family, the food on your table, the clothes on your back. It will make you want to read the sequel: In the Absence of Sun, which details the family's struggle to smuggle family out of North Korea--unbelievable! There can't be a more oppressive country on the planet. Helie Lee draws attention to this divided country that is often overlooked.
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M. Marchman
5.0 out of 5 stars You won't put this book down once you start.
Reviewed in the United States on 17 November 2013
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It told me what North Korea is really like. Worse than the press tells you. Fascinating read, I couldn't put the book down. It was recommended to me by a 26 year old Korean who recently returned from five years in Korea--she was so totally American that her father wanted her to understand her roots and sent her there for five years.
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Candice
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read!!!
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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I love this book! It was so interesting and enlightening to read. The experiences described are eye-opening!
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Vincent Spero
5.0 out of 5 stars This is an amazing book
Reviewed in the United States on 11 May 2022
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I absolutely loved this book. Beautiful story. One of the best books I've ever read.
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KSK255
5.0 out of 5 stars a treasure for your book collection
Reviewed in the United States on 11 March 2013
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i love this book. i learned so much about korean culture and history through this brave woman's eyes. her story touched my heart. i couldn't put the book down. i bought copies for my korean-american friends; it is a must read for all korean-american women who care about and are interested in their heritage.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I highly recommend it.
Reviewed in the United States on 14 December 2017
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Bought this copy because I'd given mine away. I am a Caucasian married to a Korean man and this book helped me understand Korean culture (and my Korean mother-in-law) more than anything I've ever read. I highly recommend it.
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Barbara K Heffernan
5.0 out of 5 stars A story of a Korea I once knew and still love.
Reviewed in the United States on 8 July 2013
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The author went to school in Korea where I taught many years ago with the Department of Defense. I want to read her books after reading many favorable comments about her writing. I have just begun reading this book, and so far it meets my expectations.
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Daniel P. Mclaughlin
3.0 out of 5 stars Great Writing
Reviewed in the United States on 25 December 2018
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Expect sadness. Korean history is not one of flowers and parapets casually glanced-upon.
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Bonnie von Kuegelgen
5.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating family saga beginning in pre-war Korea and ending with ...
Reviewed in the United States on 20 March 2015
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Fascinating family saga beginning in pre-war Korea and ending with the end of the Korean war as told by a Korean-American granddaughter.. Am looking forward to the sequel.
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Rachel Ash
5.0 out of 5 stars Very happy I read this.
Reviewed in the United States on 28 January 2016
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This book was such a great read. It's touching and sad, but still a wonderful story about Korean during the Japanese Occupation and the Korean War.
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Toni T.
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best books I've ever read
Reviewed in the United States on 29 December 2015
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One of the best books I've ever read. I learned a lot of history while being captivated by an amazing story
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hawj93
5.0 out of 5 stars more like a 6/5
Reviewed in the United States on 19 December 2016
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Tremendous, heart-touching book. Captivating, almost as if you were actually there in person, more like a 6/5.
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AllyG
5.0 out of 5 stars It was amazing. Very eye-opening and gut wrenching
Reviewed in the United States on 20 December 2014
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I was assigned to read this book in my Asian History class. It was amazing. Very eye-opening and gut wrenching.
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MinsAmazon
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in the United States on 15 April 2015
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Beautifully written. Can't wait to read the sequel.
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sendy gutierrez
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in the United States on 20 August 2016
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Great book!!!
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Elizabeth H. Gamburd
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Reviewed in the United States on 24 July 2015
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Fascinating book.
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Ka Bao Thao
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interesting book.
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A wonderful story about her resilient grandmother!

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January 4, 2008
"A woman must always be the strong stone, for she is the foundation of a family. However, your husband must never be threatened by your power and will. Let him believe it is his. Peace and happiness rest upon you and you alone. Guide him, lead him to his full potential, and most important, open his heart toward the light of God, and also your unborn children's." (pg. 303)

"Be good to your mother, for there will be no one else in thie whole world who will love you more dearly." (pg. 305)

" 'And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.' A mother's love." (pg. 320)

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June 14, 2010
Sex, drugs, tradition, strong women, and the history of the Korean War. This is my kinda book. All memoirs should be written like this.

One of the most touching books I've ever read ... and it was given an iffy rating on goodcleanreads.blogspot.com (http://goodcleanreads.blogspot.com/20...), just confirming all the more that this book kicks ass. :)
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I've hemmed and hawed about how I feel about this book. It's a good story, well told. It reads like a morality tale, all the riches they got from the opium trade disappeared like that, land stolen from them as soon as they bought it with the opium money. The hardships and utter stubbornness, the callousness and (overdone in some cases) charity. And to anyone who says Korea is a patriarchy - Ha! Resonates well with Fall of Giants, in that just because you're born into an upper class doesn't automatically imbue you with leadership skills, as the English learned to their sorrow on the battlefield, as the family learned to it's sorrow with Father and Eldest Son and Second Wife, and the absolute spinelessness of Husband.

More personally, I still don't know how to react to the book. All I know of North Korea is the other side of the propaganda the North pours out about the South. The parenting - that's overgenerous - the way children are allowed to grow up resonates more irritating than painful, but I guess still both. And my perpetual question, 'why, if you didn't like it when you were growing up, repeat the same pattern?'

Worth reading, doubt I'll read any more by the author. Same thing happened with Amy Tan.

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def one of the greatest memoir for me. theres no page in this book that you wouldnt want to savor because the way the author described all the intricate details of death,love, endings and new beginnings in biting humor made me feel as if i am one of the characters during the war. and trust me it was not a good experience. its like i am hanging on a thin branch that might snap any moment. but its because of the terror and chill that it brought to my bones that i like it all the more. it made me experience horror and that warm fuzzy feeling like no other book has ever done. except maybe battle royale by takami. that book was sick too.
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I LOVED this book!!! Granted, I am biased in my adoration of Korea. This book further clinches that adoration. What a resilient people! The real life aspect of it only makes it more appealing. A wonderful read from start to finish!

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I gazed down to this little bundle in my arms and quietly whispered, "Be good to your mother, for there will be no one else in this whole world who will love you more dearly."
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One of the more fascinating and inspiring stories I've ever read, it's absolutely unbelievable from start to finish

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I AM OBSESSED WITH THIS BOOK!!! This is not your typical memoir– instead of writing from her own perspective, Helie Lee writes Still Life With Rice from her Korean grandmother Hongyong Baek's perspective, with only a few pages dedicated to Lee's own thoughts. Lee explores in depth the trials that her grandmother faced, beginning with her grandmother's birth all the way up to the time of Lee writing the book. She delves deep into the topics of family relations, cultural norms, religion, motherhood, war, and love from perspective of her grandmother. Lee also examines the way in which attitudes towards these topics shift or remain the same through the generations– from her great-great-grandmother's generation to her own generation. The story of Hongyong Baek is one that will keep your eyes watering and your mind racing. Overall, Still Life With Rice is beautifully written and is a book that will stick with me for a lifetime.

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"Our first responsibility must be to the family and not to the individual. It is our duty as women to raise future generations."

"Korean women consider our positions as mothers and nurturers to be the most important job. Asserting our rights outside the household is not worth sacrificing the family's well-being."

p.36 Ironing: "Mother made it looks so simple and graceful. She would take a sip of water and spray the fabric evenly from between puckered lips, then glide the iron across Father's wrinkled trousers. My sprays usually dribbled out in pu8ddles, leaving a wet trail down my chin and front of my dress..."

p.165 "These were the same words I had heard before. As I listened to them once more, drinking in their profound meaning, I felt some unseen force inside me, massaging, softening my callused heart. Instantly thirty-five years of jealousy, dishonesty, lust, and pride were exposed. I saw the person I had been and the sins I had committed against others. My heart felt heavy, I wanted to purged of my burden. I wanted this Jesus to help me. At that moment when I asked to be saved, the light of the sun seemed to flood the room..."

p.171 "Right there in bold print, for anyone to read, was the message of love. God treasured all his children equally, regardless of gender. For the first time in my life, I was truly content simply being a person, not a wife, not a mother, not a woman. A person."

p.179 Convinced to try out Christianity: "If there is a chance to reunited after death, I wish to go where my family is. I do not want to be separated from you."

p.211 "The thought of washing pads along the icy trail with bombs exploding over our heads was almost funny. For this reason alone, women would never start wars."

p.222 Caution to children: "Listen carefully. When the planes swarm again, do not yell out my name. I cannot protect you from the bullets. Call out Jesus' name. He is the only one who can save you. Do you understand?"

p.225 "Move on," I told myself. "I can only worry about my own." Such selfish words, not the Christian thing to do, and yet I think God understood the terrible decisions I often had to make.

p. 289 to the farm boy applying for college: "All you have is this pencil and God, but that is more than enough."

p.309 Sending her daughter to America: "Through out touch, we communicated a lifetime of apologies and forgiveness. Through our eyes we, we confirmed the love that flowed between us."

P.315 Advice from grandmother "Do no hold on to your unmarried status as if it is a great prize. A rotten fruit once fallen off the tree is wasted and there are no second chances. Life and the creation of life is the most precious gift given to women. It is not meant to be taken lightly or denied."

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<밥이 있는 정물> 요약 및 평론

1. 작품 개요 및 배경

1996년 출간된 헬리 리(Helie Lee, 이혜리)의 <밥이 있는 정물>(Still Life with Rice)은 재미동포 2세 여성 작가가 자신의 외할머니 백홍용(Hongyong Baek, 1912년생)의 파란만장한 생애를 1인칭 시점으로 복원해 낸 자전적 가족사 평전이다.

미국에서 나고 자라며 한국적 유산과 전통적 가족 규범에 반발하고 정체성의 혼란을 겪던 작가는, 성인이 되어 외할머니의 구술을 채록하며 20세기 한국 현대사의 격랑 속에 감춰져 있던 여성들의 강인한 생명력을 발견한다. 이 작품은 일제강점기, 만주 망명, 해방, 분단과 한국전쟁, 그리고 미국 캘리포니아로의 이주에 이르는 장대한 시간대를 배경으로 삼으며, 거대한 역사적 비극 속에서 가족을 먹여 살리고 지켜낸 한 가부장제 시대 여성의 투쟁을 생생하게 그려낸다.

2. 본문 요약

제1부: 봉건적 규범 속의 유년기와 결혼

1912년 일제강점기 초기에 태어난 백홍용은 엄격한 유교적 가부장제 가문에서 성장한다. 어려서부터 여성에게 요구되던 순종, 가사 노동, 침묵을 내면화하도록 교육받은 홍용은 스물두 살에 얼굴도 보지 못한 남성과 중매결혼을 한다. 그러나 남편은 가부장적 권위만을 내세우며 현실적인 생활력이 부족했고, 경제적 파탄과 일제의 탄압 속에서 집안을 실질적으로 이끌어야 하는 몫은 오롯이 홍용에게 돌아온다.

제2부: 만주에서의 생존과 아편 사업

일제의 수탈과 억압을 피해 가족은 만주로 떠난다. 낯선 타국 땅에서 극심한 빈곤에 시달리던 홍용은 전통적 현모양처의 역할에 안주하기를 거부하고 대담한 결단을 내린다. 식당을 운영해 악착같이 돈을 모으는 한편, 막대한 위험을 감수하고 아편 밀매 및 유통 사업에 뛰어들어 가문의 부를 일군다. 이 과정에서 그는 자생적인 민간 치유술과 침술을 터득하여 '치료자'로서의 능력을 발휘하기 시작한다.

제3부: 전쟁의 참화와 남하

해방 후 고향 평양으로 돌아왔으나, 한반도 북부에 들어선 공산 체제와 곧이어 터진 한국전쟁은 가족의 삶을 다시금 산산조각 낸다. 공산당의 감시와 재산 몰수 속에서 홍용은 가족을 이끌고 피란길에 오른다. 폭격과 기아, 생사의 갈림길을 뚫고 남한(부산과 예천 등)으로 내려오는 처절한 탈출 과정에서, 홍용은 타고난 담력과 기지로 가족의 목숨을 지켜낸다.

제4부: 재건과 미국 이주, 그리고 손녀의 화해

전쟁의 폐허 속에서도 홍용은 치료와 민간요법을 통해 다시 일어선다. 훗날 자녀들이 미국으로 이주하자, 노년의 홍용 역시 캘리포니아로 건너가 새로운 환경에서 한인 커뮤니티의 치료사로서 독자적인 삶을 이어간다.

책의 서두와 결말부에서 작가 헬리 리는 할머니의 궤적을 온전히 이해함으로써, 그동안 자신을 억누른다고 여겼던 한국적 혈통과 어머니 세대의 억척스러움이 실은 역사적 비극을 이겨낸 숭고한 생존의 유산이었음을 깨닫고 자신의 정체성을 긍정하게 된다.

3. 심층 평론

1) '밥'의 상징성과 물질적 생존의 정치학

제목의 <밥>(Rice)은 단순한 음식을 넘어 생명 유지의 최소 단위이자, 가족 공동체를 결속시키는 실질적인 물질적 토대를 상징한다. 서구 문학의 정물화(Still Life)가 정적이고 관조적인 미를 다룬다면, 헬리 리가 조명하는 <밥이 있는 정물>은 매일의 끼니를 마련하기 위해 전쟁과 기아를 돌파해야 했던 역동적인 노동과 생존의 현장이다. 홍용에게 밥을 짓고 먹이는 행위는 가부장적 억압 속에서 여성이 발휘할 수 있는 가장 강력한 생명 수호의 무기였다.

2) 도덕적 딜레마와 모순적 여성 영웅의 형상화

이 작품의 독창성은 할머니를 순결하고 희생적인 전통적 어머니상으로 박제하지 않는다는 점에 있다. 가족의 굶주림을 해결하기 위해 도덕적 금기를 깨고 아편 사업에 손을 대는 홍용의 모습은, 지배 질서가 강요하는 '정숙한 여성'의 허구를 폭로한다. 그는 선과 악의 이분법을 넘어, 극한의 환경에서 가족을 구하기 위해 실용적 결단을 내리는 입체적이고 주체적인 인물로 그려진다.

3) 세대 간 번역과 디아스포라 정체성의 재구성

<밥이 있는 정물>은 2세 재미동포 작가가 1세 이전의 디아스포라 조상을 1인칭으로 빙의하여 서술하는 독특한 형식을 취한다. 이는 단절되었던 언어와 문화적 장벽을 허물고 세대 간 기억을 번역해 내는 문학적 실천이다. 작가는 아메리카니즘과 가부장적 한국 문화 사이의 갈등을 단순한 '동화 vs 저항'의 구도로 보지 않고, 할머니의 삶 속에 각인된 역사의 상흔을 응시함으로써 비로소 복합적인 자아를 완성한다.

4. 결론

<밥이 있는 정물>은 20세기 한국 현대사의 잔혹한 격변을 온몸으로 받아내며 가족을 지켜낸 한 여성의 서사시이자, 디아스포라 세대가 자신의 뿌리와 화해하는 과정을 보여주는 수작이다. 거대 정치사에서 배제되었던 여성들의 실천적 지혜와 생명력을 복원함으로써, 아시아계 미국 문학 및 이민자 문학 연구에 있어 굵직한 통찰을 제공한다.


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《Still Life with Rice》

《쌀과 함께한 정물: 한 젊은 미국 여성이 발견한 한국인 외할머니의 삶과 유산》

헬리 리(Helie Lee), 1996 — 1,000단어 요약 평론

《Still Life with Rice》는 형식부터 특이한 책이다. 한국계 미국인 작가 헬리 리가 자신의 외할머니 백홍용(Hongyong Baek)의 이야기를 듣고 조사하여 썼지만, 일반적인 전기처럼 3인칭으로 서술하지 않는다. 작가는 외할머니가 직접 말하는 것처럼 1인칭으로 그의 어린 시절, 결혼, 일제강점기, 중국 생활, 해방, 북한 정권, 한국전쟁, 피난과 미국 이민을 재구성한다. 출판사도 이 책을 외할머니의 목소리로 재창조한 회고록이라고 소개하지만, 비평가들은 상당 부분의 대화와 내면을 작가가 상상하여 복원했다는 점에서 <bio-fiction, 전기적 소설>이라고 부르기도 한다. 바로 이 특징이 이 책의 가장 큰 매력이면서 동시에 가장 중요한 한계이다.

1. 미국화된 손녀가 외할머니를 발견하다

책의 출발점은 사실 백홍용보다 손녀 헬리 리이다. 미국 캘리포니아에서 성장한 헬리에게 한국적인 생활방식과 사고를 고집하는 어머니와 외할머니는 한때 이해하기 어려운 존재였다. 그는 자신을 미국인으로 생각하며 한국계라는 정체성에 불편함도 느낀다. 그러나 한국과 홍콩·중국 등을 찾아가 가족사를 추적하면서 외할머니가 살아온 세계를 처음으로 이해하기 시작한다. 이러한 경험은 결국 자신이 누구인지 다시 묻게 한다.

따라서 《Still Life with Rice》는 외할머니의 전기인 동시에 <3세대 한국계 미국인이 잃어버린 가족의 기억을 회수하는 과정>을 기록한 책이다.

2. 식민지 조선의 여자아이

백홍용은 1912년 태어났다. 그가 성장한 조선은 이미 일본 식민지였다. 그러나 어린 홍용에게 가장 직접적인 억압은 처음부터 일본인이 아니라 <가부장적인 한국 가족제도>이다.

딸에게 기대되는 길은 정해져 있다. 부모에게 순종하고, 집안일을 배우고, 부모가 선택한 남자와 결혼하고, 아들을 낳아 남편 집안을 이어가는 것이다. 출판사의 설명도 홍용이 <순종하는 딸, 얌전한 아내, 능숙한 가사 관리자>가 되도록 교육받았다고 강조한다.

그런 점에서 이 책은 단순한 항일 민족수난사가 아니다. 일본 식민주의라는 외부 억압과 한국 사회 내부의 여성 억압이 겹쳐 있다.

홍용에게 결혼은 낭만적 사랑의 결과가 아니다. 중매로 결정된다. 그러나 흥미롭게도 그는 시간이 지나면서 남편과 정서적인 관계를 만들어간다. 전통사회에서 개인적 감정과 가족의무가 어떻게 공존했는지를 보여주는 부분이다.

3. 가족을 먹여 살리는 여성이 되다

홍용의 인생에서 가장 인상적인 변화는 <보호받는 딸에서 가족을 부양하는 여성으로의 변화>이다.

결혼 이후 정치적·경제적 상황은 계속 악화되고 가족은 일제하의 조선을 떠나 1939년 중국으로 이동한다. 중국에서 살아남기 위해 홍용은 전통적 여성 역할의 한계를 넘어선다. 식당을 운영하고, 가족의 생계를 위해 아편 거래에도 관여한다. 후에는 <ch’iryo(치료)>라고 불리는 치료법을 익혀 사람들을 치료하고 돈을 번다. 출판사는 식당 경영과 아편 사업, 치료 활동을 모두 홍용이 가족을 지키기 위해 발휘한 기업가적 능력의 사례로 소개한다.

이 대목은 매우 중요하다.

전통적인 성별 질서는 남편을 가장으로 규정하지만, 실제 위기상황에서 가족의 생존을 책임지는 사람은 홍용이다. 전쟁과 빈곤은 역설적으로 그에게 이전에는 허락되지 않았던 경제적 자율성과 판단력을 부여한다.

그는 여성해방을 주장하는 이론가는 아니다. 가족제도를 거부하지도 않는다. 오히려 <가족을 지켜야 한다>는 전통적인 여성의 책임을 극단적으로 수행하는 과정에서 전통적인 여성의 경계를 넘어선다.

이것이 이 책의 여성사적 의미이다.

4. 해방은 곧 자유가 아니었다

일본의 패전과 조선의 해방은 가족에게 안정된 삶을 가져다주지 않는다. 한반도는 곧 남북으로 나뉘고 북쪽에는 공산주의 정권이 형성된다.

백홍용 가족은 북한에서 새로운 정치적 압력을 경험한다. 특히 기독교 신앙은 새 체제 아래에서 위험요인이 된다. 가족은 일본 식민지배가 끝났다고 해서 자유로운 국민이 된 것이 아니라 또 다른 정치체제의 감시와 통제를 경험한다. Kirkus는 이 부분에서 작가가 북한 정권과 기독교 박해의 역사적 배경을 충분히 설명하지 않았다고 비판한다.

이 비판은 타당하다. 독자는 홍용 가족이 왜 그렇게 위험한 위치에 놓였는지는 느낄 수 있지만, 북한 초기의 토지개혁, 계급정책, 기독교 세력과 공산주의 사이의 갈등 같은 정치·사회적 구조를 이 책만으로 충분히 이해하기는 어렵다.

《Still Life with Rice》는 역사책이라기보다 <역사가 한 가족에게 어떤 모습으로 닥쳤는가>를 보여주는 책이다.

5. 한국전쟁 — 책의 절정

1950년 한국전쟁이 일어나면서 서사는 극적으로 변한다.

홍용은 남편을 잃고 가족은 흩어진다. 한 아들과도 헤어지게 된다. 네 명의 어린 자녀를 데리고 북한에서 남쪽으로 내려오는 피난 과정은 책에서 가장 강렬한 부분이다. Kirkus조차 이 부분에서는 처음으로 독자가 <역사 속을 실제로 살아가는 느낌>을 받는다고 평가한다.

전쟁은 여기서 군대와 전투의 역사가 아니다.

어머니에게 전쟁은

<오늘 아이들에게 무엇을 먹일 것인가, 어디서 잘 것인가, 누구를 데리고 갈 수 있는가, 길에서 죽지 않을 수 있는가>

라는 문제이다.

그래서 《Still Life with Rice》가 보여주는 한국전쟁은 장군과 정치인들의 한국전쟁과 매우 다르다. 피난민 여성의 시점에서 본 전쟁이다.

그리고 아들과의 이별은 책 전체에 긴 그림자를 남긴다. 흥미롭게도 책이 출판될 무렵 가족은 죽었다고 생각했던 그 아들이 북한에 살아 있다는 사실을 알게 되었다. 헬리 리는 이후 그 가족과 다시 연결되고 탈출을 돕는 과정을 두 번째 책 《In the Absence of Sun》(《태양이 없는 곳에서》)에서 다루었다.

6. 미국 이민 — 역사의 종착점인가

결국 백홍용은 미국으로 이민하여 캘리포니아에 정착하고 자신이 익힌 치료 활동도 다시 시작한다.

여기에서 한 세대의 놀라운 이동이 완성된다.

<식민지 조선 → 중국 → 북한 → 전쟁과 피난 → 남한 → 미국>

이라는 이동이다.

그러나 미국 도착이 단순한 행복한 결말은 아니다. 육체는 미국으로 왔지만 기억은 한반도에 남아 있다. 특히 헤어진 가족과 고향에 대한 그리움은 사라지지 않는다.

그 기억을 손녀 헬리에게 전달하는 행위 자체가 이 책의 마지막 단계이다. 외할머니가 살아낸 역사가 손녀의 글을 통해 미국의 한국계 후손에게 전달된다.

7. 가장 뛰어난 점 — 역사를 <여성의 일상>으로 바꾸었다

이 책의 가장 큰 장점은 한국 근현대사의 거대한 사건들을 한 여성의 일상 속으로 끌어내린 데 있다.

일제강점기라고 하면 독립운동과 총독부를 생각하고, 해방이라고 하면 미·소 점령과 좌우대립을 생각하며, 한국전쟁이라고 하면 북한군·국군·미군과 전선을 생각하기 쉽다.

그러나 홍용에게 역사는 밥이고 쌀이며 아이들이다.

바로 그래서 제목의 <Rice>가 의미심장하다.

쌀은 거대한 이념과 반대편에 있는 것처럼 보이지만 실제 인간에게는 더 근본적이다. 어떤 정권이 들어서든 가족은 먹어야 한다. 정치체제가 몇 번이나 바뀌어도 홍용의 가장 지속적인 과제는 <가족을 살아 있게 만드는 것>이다.

그 점에서 이 책은 국가의 역사를 <생존의 역사>로 다시 쓴다.

8. 그러나 이것을 그대로 역사적 증언으로 읽어서는 안 된다

이 책의 가장 중요한 문제도 바로 여기 있다.

헬리 리는 외할머니를 인터뷰했지만, 외할머니가 직접 쓴 회고록을 편집한 것이 아니다. 작가는 외할머니의 1인칭 목소리를 만들어내고, 수십 년 전의 대화와 감정, 결혼식과 신혼생활 같은 매우 사적인 장면까지 문학적으로 재구성한다. Kirkus는 이런 부분이 지나치게 소설화되어 있으며, 일본 식민지배나 중국 이주, 북한 체제에 관한 역사적 설명도 충분하지 않다고 상당히 날카롭게 비판했다.

이 지적은 이 책을 읽는 데 매우 중요하다.

《Still Life with Rice》는

<외할머니가 실제로 남긴 회고록>

이라기보다

<손녀가 외할머니의 기억을 토대로 재구성한 외할머니의 생애>

라고 보는 편이 정확하다.

따라서 대화나 내면 묘사를 역사적 사실처럼 인용해서는 곤란하다. 반면 가족의 이동, 생업, 전쟁 경험, 여성의 역할과 같은 큰 골격에서는 구술 가족사로서 상당한 가치가 있다. 아시아학 교육 전문지 《Education About Asia》도 이 책을 일본과 소련의 점령, 내전과 여성의 생존 경험을 생생하게 보여주는 자료로 높이 평가했다.

9. 《Quiet Odyssey》와 비교하면

앞서 살펴본 메리 백 리의 《Quiet Odyssey》와 함께 읽으면 차이가 특히 흥미롭다.

메리 백 리는 1900년생이지만 다섯 살이던 1905년에 한국을 떠났다. 따라서 그의 핵심 경험은 <미국에서 한국인으로 살아가는 것>이다.

반면 백홍용은 1912년생으로 식민지 조선에서 어린 시절과 청년기를 보내고 결혼까지 했다. 따라서 《Still Life with Rice》의 중심은 <한국에서 식민지와 전쟁을 직접 살아낸 여성의 경험>이다.

두 책을 한 문장씩 대비하면 이렇다.

<Quiet Odyssey> → 한국에서 떠난 어린아이가 미국 최초기 한인사회에서 어떻게 살아남았는가. <Still Life with Rice> → 한국에 남아 있던 한 여성이 식민지·중국 이주·분단·전쟁을 어떻게 살아남아 결국 미국에 도착했는가.

그래서 한국의 식민지 생활 자체를 이해하려는 목적이라면 《Still Life with Rice》가 《Quiet Odyssey》보다 훨씬 직접적인 자료이다. 다만 전자는 실제 당사자가 자기 기억을 쓰도록 편집된 자서전적 성격이 강한 반면, 후자는 손녀가 외할머니의 목소리를 빌려 소설적으로 재구성했다는 차이를 반드시 기억해야 한다.

종합평가

《Still Life with Rice》는 엄밀한 한국현대사 연구서는 아니다. 역사적 설명에는 빈틈이 있고, 실제 기억과 작가의 상상력을 정확히 분리하기 어렵다. 따라서 일제강점기나 북한 초기 역사를 이 책 하나로 이해해서는 안 된다.

그럼에도 매우 가치 있는 책이다.

왜냐하면 우리가 역사책에서는 거의 만나지 못하는 사람, 즉 <밥을 짓고, 아이를 낳고, 장사를 하고, 피난길에서 가족을 끌고 가면서 역사를 견딘 평범한 한국 여성>을 역사의 중심에 세우기 때문이다.

백홍용은 정치지도자도 독립운동가도 지식인도 아니다. 그러나 20세기 한국사가 한 개인에게 가할 수 있었던 거의 모든 격변—식민지배, 이주, 빈곤, 해방, 공산화, 종교박해, 전쟁, 가족이산, 난민생활, 이민—을 몸으로 통과한다.

그러면서도 그의 삶을 관통하는 것은 거대한 이념이 아니다.

<가족을 먹이고 살아남게 하는 것>이다.

그런 의미에서 《Still Life with Rice》는 한국 현대사를 이해하는 독특한 여성사적 텍스트이다. 국가의 역사가 위에서 아래로 내려오는 것이 아니라, 한 여성이 매일 한 그릇의 쌀밥을 마련해야 하는 현실 속에서 어떻게 경험되는지를 보여준다. 바로 그 점이 출간 후 거의 30년이 지난 지금도 이 책을 읽을 가치가 있게 만든다.

특히 1910년대 후반~1920년대 초반에 태어나 식민지 조선을 직접 살아본 사람들의 자전적 기록을 찾는 관점에서는, 백홍용이 1912년생이라는 점 때문에 《Still Life with Rice》는 매우 가까운 비교자료가 된다. 다만 <당사자의 자서전>과 <후손이 구술을 바탕으로 재창작한 가족사>라는 차이를 염두에 두고 읽는 것이 좋다.


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