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Making out - Wikipedia

Making out - Wikipedia


Making out

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
A couple making out

Making out is a term of American origin dating back to at least 1949,[1] and is used to refer to kissing, including extended French kissing or necking[2] (heavy kissing of the neck, and above),[3] or to acts of non-penetrative sex such as heavy petting ("intimate contact, just short of sexual intercourse"[2]).[3][4] Equivalent terms in other dialects include the British English getting off and the Hiberno-English shifting.[5] When performed in a stationary vehicle, it has been euphemistically referred to as parking,[6][7] coinciding with American car culture.

History

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The sexual connotations of the phrase "make out" appear to have developed in the 1930s and 1940s from the phrase's other meaning: "to succeed". Originally, it meant "to seduce" or "to have sexual intercourse".[8]

"Petting" ("making out" or foreplay) was popularized in the 1920s, as youth culture challenged earlier Victorian era strictures on sexuality[9] with the rise in popularity of "petting parties".[10] At these parties, promiscuity became more commonplace, breaking from the traditions of monogamy or courtship with their expectations of eventual marriage.[11] This was typical on college campuses, where young people "spent a great deal of unsupervised time in mixed company",[12][13][14] and theaters.[15]

In the 1950s, Life magazine depicted petting parties as "that famed and shocking institution of the '20s", and commenting on the Kinsey Report, said that they have been "very much with us ever since".[16] In the Kinsey Report of 1950, there was an indicated increase in premarital intercourse for the generation of the 1920s. Kinsey found that of women born before 1900, 14 percent acknowledged premarital sex before the age of 25, while those born after 1900 were two and a half times more likely (36 percent) to have premarital intercourse and experience an orgasm.[17] The Continental[citation needed] zeitgeist is illustrated by a letter that Sigmund Freud wrote to Sándor Ferenczi in 1931, playfully admonishing him to stop kissing his patients; Freud warned him lest "a number of independent thinkers in matters of technique will say to themselves: Why stop at a kiss? Certainly one gets further when one adopts 'pawing' as well, which, after all, doesn't make a baby. And then bolder ones will come along who will go further, to peeping and showing – and soon we shall have accepted in the technique of analysis the whole repertoire of demi-viergerie and petting parties".[18]

In the years following World War I,[19] necking and petting became accepted behavior in mainstream American culture as long as the partners were dating.[20] A 1956 study defined necking as "kissing and light caressing above the neck" and petting as "more intimate contact with the erogenous zones, short of sexual intercourse".[2] Alfred Kinsey's definition of petting was "deliberately touching body parts above or below the waist", compared to necking which only involved general body contact.[21]

Characteristics

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Making out is usually considered an expression of romantic affection or sexual attraction. An episode of making out is frequently referred to as a "make-out session" or simply "making out", depending on the speaker's vernacular.[22] It covers a wide range of sexual behavior,[23] and means different things to different age groups in different parts of the United States.[1] It typically refers to kissing,[3] including prolonged, passionate, open-mouth kissing (also known as French kissing), and intimate skin-to-skin contact.[1][3] The term can also refer to other forms of foreplay such as heavy petting (sometimes simply called petting),[3][4] which typically involves some genital stimulation,[24] but usually not the direct act of penetrative sexual intercourse.[3][4][25]

The perceived significance of making out may be affected by the age and relative sexual experience of the participants. Teenagers sometimes play party games in which making out is the main activity as an act of exploration. Games in this category include seven minutes in heaven and spin the bottle.[26]

Teenagers may have had social gatherings in which making out was the predominant event. In the United States, these events were referred to as "make-out parties" and may have been confined to a specific area, called the "make-out room".[27] These make-out parties were generally not regarded as sex parties, though heavy petting may have been involved, depending on the group.

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References

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  1. Jump up to:a b c Lief, Harold I. (1975). Medical Aspects of Human Sexuality: 750 Questions Answered by 500 Authorities. Williams & Wilkins. p. 242. Among the city kids of 13 to 17 who live along the Boston, New York, Philadelphia string, "making out" is heavy petting.
  2. Jump up to:a b c Breed, Warren (1956). "Sex, Class and Socialization in Dating". Marriage and Family Living18 (2): 137–144. doi:10.2307/348638ISSN 0885-7059JSTOR 348638.
  3. Jump up to:a b c d e f Bolin, Anne (1999). Perspectives on Human Sexuality. Albany: State University of New York Press. p. 222. ISBN 0-7914-4133-4Making out usually refers to kissing or passionate physical contact, but it also may escalate into petting.
  4. Jump up to:a b c Partridge, Eric (2006). The New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English. New York: Routledge. p. 1259ISBN 0-415-25938-X.
  5. ^ O'Connell, Jennifer (December 15, 2014). "Don't mind us: Jennifer O'Connell on the marvels of Hiberno-English"The Irish Times. Retrieved October 26, 2017.
  6. ^ Lindeke, Bill (September 17, 2015). "The unwritten rules of making out in parks"MinnPost. Retrieved March 16, 2018.
  7. ^ Olsen, Hannah Brooks (September 28, 2015). "How to Hook Up in Public"BloombergArchived from the original on January 27, 2022. Retrieved March 16, 2018.
  8. ^ Moe, Albert F. (1966) "'Make out' and Related Usages". American Speech 41(2): 96–107.
  9. ^ Weeks, Linton (June 26, 2015). "When 'Petting Parties' Scandalized The Nation"NPR. Retrieved December 18, 2020.
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  11. ^ McArthur, Judith N; Smith, Harold L (2010). Texas Through Women's Eyes: The Twentieth-Century Experience. University of Texas Press. pp. 104–05. ISBN 9780292778351The spirit of the petting party is light and frivolous. Its object is not marriage – only a momentary thrill. It completely gives the lie to those sweet, old phrases, "the only man" and "the only girl". For where there used to be only one girl there may be a score of them now.
  12. ^ Drowne, Kathleen Morgan; Huber, Patrick (2004). The 1920s. Bloomsbury Academic. p. 45. ISBN 9780313320132.
  13. ^ Nelson, Lawrence J (2003). Rumors of Indiscretion. University of Missouri Press. p. 39. ISBN 9780826262905..
  14. ^ Bragdon, Claude (2007). Delphic Woman. Cosimo. pp. 45–46. ISBN 9781596054301..
  15. ^ "Petting Parties at Theatres Blushingful Aweful - She Says"Variety88 (7). New York City: Variety, Inc.: 1, 31 August 31, 1927. Retrieved June 12, 2023.
  16. ^ Havemann, Ernest. "The Kinsey Report on Women" Life magazine (August 24, 1953)
  17. ^ Duenil, Lynn (1995). The Modern Temper: American Culture and Society in the 1920s. New York, NY: Hill and Wang. p. 136.
  18. ^ Quoted in Malcolm, Janet. Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession (London 1988) pp. 37-8
  19. ^ Weeks, Linton (May 26, 2015). "When 'Petting Parties' Scandalized The Nation"National Public Radio. National Public Radio, Inc. Retrieved April 6, 2023.
  20. ^ Breines, Wini (2001). Young, White, and Miserable: Growing Up Female in the Fifties. University of Chicago Press. pp. 117–118. ISBN 0-226-07261-4.
  21. ^ Weigel, Moira (2016). Labor of Love. Farrar, Straus and Giroux. pp. 76–77. ISBN 9780374182533.
  22. ^ Cann, Kate. Hard Cash (London 2000) pp. 262 and 237
  23. ^ Lafollette, Hugh (2002). Ethics in Practice. Oxford: Blackwell. p. 243. ISBN 0-631-22834-9"making out," which can comprise a rather wide variety of activities
  24. ^ "Heavy petting - definition of heavy petting in English from the Oxford dictionary". Archived from the original on December 19, 2012.
  25. ^ Crownover, Richard (2005). Making out in English. Boston: Tuttle Publishing. p. 4ISBN 0-8048-3681-7"Making out," used in the title of this book is a colloquialism that can mean engaging in sexual intercourse, ...
  26. ^ "Notes From the State of Virginia", with Wesley Hogan, in First of the Year, vol. II, edited by Benj DeMott (New York: Transaction Publishers, 2010) p.121
  27. ^ From Abba to Zoom: A Pop Culture Encyclopedia of the Late 20th Century by Mansour, David. (2005) ISBN 978-0740751189. p.110

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애무

위키백과, 우리 모두의 백과사전.

커플이 어울리는 실루엣

애무(愛撫)는 사랑하는 사람끼리 성교중이나 평상시에 어루 만지는 애정 표현으로, 커뮤니케이션 양식에 접촉함으로써 상대에게 애정을 나타내는 비교적 좋아하는 행위이다. 스킨십(skinship)이라고도 하는데, 이것은 엄연한 일본어식 영어한국어식 영어이다.

평상시의 애무

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평상시의 애무는 포옹이나 키스와 같은 일반적인 스킨십으로 이루어진다.

성교시의 애무

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성교시의 애무는 평상시와는 다르게 성기나 그 주변들을 애무한다. 이때 대부분의 성교시 애무는 성행위에 속하며, 상대방에게 쾌감을 주기위해 행하는경우가 대부분이다. 주요 애무로는 남성이 여성의 가슴을 빨거나 여성의 성기를 빠는 행위, 여성이 남성의 성기를 빠는 행위가 있다. 또 함께 씻으면서 키스를 하는 경우도 있다.

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ペッティング

出典: フリー百科事典『ウィキペディア(Wikipedia)』

ペッティング(英: petting)は、男性器の挿入(性交)を除いた性行為である。日本でのペッティングは主に愛撫することを指すが、風俗店では本番行為以外のすべての性行為をペッティングと定義して総称しているところもある。ペット進行形のingを付け加えたのが語源である[1]

概要

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昭和後期以降の若者の間に、「ABC」という隠語がある[注 1]。この場合、Aはキス、Bはペッティング、Cはセックス(性交)を意味する。A、B、Cと段階を踏むごとに異性同士の接触が濃厚になることからも窺えるように、思春期から結婚前の男女間や近親姦において、妊娠性感染症の危険性や処女を失うことへのためらい、性交同意年齢など心理的に罪悪感や様々な抵抗がある。そのため性交まで至らず、その前段階に留まりつつも身体的に快感を追求している状態こそが、中盤を取り持つペッティングであった。

また、同性愛の他に異性愛でも性ホルモン(性的興奮)の分泌が少ない年代(思春期前や高齢者)同士のため、ペッティングという形態を取ることもある。

ただし、精子内に入れば妊娠する可能性がある[注 2]。また、ペッティングの場合は性感染症への確率が性交に比べて低くなるが、オーラルセックスなどでパートナーの体液が自分の体に接触すると感染の可能性がある。

日本性教育協会第4回青少年の性行動調査によると、ペッティングの経験が男性は19歳、女性は20歳で50%を超える[2]

ファッションヘルスではキス(A)・ペッティング(B)は行われても、性交(C)は行われない(禁止されている)。

関連項目

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脚注

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注釈

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  1. ^ 21世紀に入ってからは「HIJK」であるという。いわゆる「できちゃった結婚」のこと。
  2. ^ 精子は空気に触れると死滅するが、全てがすぐに死滅することはない。また下半身は着衣のままであっても、着衣繊維の間を精子がくぐり抜け、女性器に到達することもありえる。

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